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What Will You Do? by Felicia Bowen Bridges

Posted by on Nov 4, 2013 in American History | Comments Off

Last year on Election Day, the faces of soldiers, suffragettes, and Civil Rights activists stared accusingly at me from my Facebook page with the caption:  ”Don’t forget to vote.  They died so you could.”


These brave Americans were willing to be mocked, beaten, tortured, and killed to cast a ballot and determine the fate of this country.  They poured out their blood and sweat, tears and agony so that today you and I can walk inside a voting booth and vote without fear or being coerced.


We are often frustrated by the poor quality of the candidates or by those running unopposed.  But how would those courageous faces react to our mantra, “It doesn’t really matter—it’s the lesser of two evils?”  What would they think about how few intelligent, thoughtful, ethical, and reasonable candidates appear on the ballot?


As citizens of the United States of America, God has gifted us with a unique privilege.  Our history reveals a nation birthed through Divine providence according to most of the founding fathers.  Although the freedoms we enjoy today were not universal until recent decades, all adult citizens now have the right to vote (unless a convicted felon).  God has placed us in a time and place where we have an unparalleled opportunity to determine the direction and priorities of our government.


Working together, we can fix the government’s current tangled web of budget mismanagement and overspending.  This debacle is not the fault of any one party, but of an ideology on both sides of the aisle that says, “What’s in it for me?”


John F. Kennedy said, “Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.”


What can we do?  It’s been said, “We can do anything once we’ve prayed; but until we’ve prayed, we can do nothing.”  Nothing has the power to impact this country more than prayer.  Second Chronicles 7:14 promises, “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”


Notice the prerequisite to prayer:  “Humble ourselves.”


We must first recognize that we are who we are, as a person, as a church, and as a nation, only by the grace of Almighty God.  If our country’s current quandary doesn’t move us to humility, what will?


We also must “seek [His] face and turn from [our] wicked ways.”  Seeking God’s face is different than seeking His hand.  Instead of asking God to bless our “all-about-me” behavior, we seek His approval by turning from our narcissistic focus to His self-sacrificing ways.


That means putting the needs of others before our own.  It means sacrificing everything—maybe even our lives—for something more important than our own comfort.  Just like those who purchased our right to vote with their blood.


To God be the Glory



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Felicia Bowen Bridges writes non-fiction short stories and novels depicting God’s grace, sovereignty and power.  She is a contributing writer in God’s Provision in Tough Times.  Follow her lessons learned from God’s Word at:

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The Story I’ve Never Forgotten – The Monk

Posted by on Sep 17, 2013 in Encouragement | 15 comments

Have you ever read a story that never leaves you?  For me, it’s the monk story.

More than 10 years ago, I sat in a waiting room where, rather than waste time, I flipped through the pages of a magazine until an article captured my attention.*

176988333The author had long dreamed of being a monk, but because a 9-5 paying job seemed more practical, he chose that route instead.  Years passed and although he was successful, he never forgot his heart’s desire.

One day the author saw a newspaper article about a local monastery.  For men who wanted to consider entering monastic life, the monastery was holding a four-week retreat.  Qualified applicants would live at the monastery and participate in its activities.  At the program’s conclusion, participants could decide whether or not they wanted to enter the monastic order.

The author’s application was accepted and after checking in on the first day, he was shown to his quarters.  His stark, doorless room contained a single bed, dresser, desk and chair.

After unpacking, he and the other would-be monks attended an orientation where they were given their itinerary for the next month.

The author was stunned to learn that morning prayers and vespers began at 3:30 a.m.—attendance mandatory.  After an early breakfast, assigned chores were performed in silence until lunch.  Afternoons were spent in silent study, and once evening vespers ended, the men returned to their rooms where they remained silent.

Assigned to wash the monastery’s floors, the author thought his chore not so bad until he learned that he would scrub the floors on his hands and knees—in silence.  The work was painful, exhausting.  Hours of silence magnified the harshness.  This was not what the author imagined when he dreamed of monastic life.

After lunch on the fourth day, the author returned to his room and began packing.  When the head monk walked past the open doorway, he stopped and asked the author why he was leaving.

The author explained that life in the monastery was nothing like he’d imagined.  The hours were long and the work was difficult.  And then there was the silence.  The painful, lonely silence.  It was all too much, too difficult for the author to bear.  He couldn’t see himself serving God this way for the next 15 or 20 years.

To the author’s surprise, the head monk didn’t try to persuade him to stay, but rather agreed with everything he’d said.  Life at the monastery was unbearably difficult.  Why, during his many years there, life had never once gotten easier for him.  If anything, it sometimes became harder.

Shocked, the author asked the head monk how he was able to stay.

“As much as I love God and want to serve Him, if I viewed my life as though I had twenty or thirty years left here at the monastery, I couldn’t handle it.  I’d pack my bags and leave.

“But God uses the difficulty, the austerity, the silence to teach me perspective.  I’ve learned to look at my life one day at a time.  When I do that, I can get through the hardships that each day brings.  There are some days so difficult that I need to look at my life in one hour - or even one minute - increments or I’d be overwhelmed and give up.

“God has taught me to view my life in manageable amounts.  That’s how I get through the unbearable.  That’s how I stay.  That’s how I’m able to serve the Lord.”

After letting the monk’s words sink in for several minutes, the author removed his clothing from his suitcase.

“What are you doing?” the monk asked.

“I know I can make it till dinner.”

Life is difficult.  It can be downright brutal.  But I know I can make it through today.  What about you?  How do you get through the toughest of days?  Let me hear from you!

Have I not commanded you?  Be strong and courageous.  Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.  Joshua 1:9 (ESV)


* I regret that I cannot recall the name of the author or the magazine so that I can give both their due credit and my appreciation.  If anyone should recognize this story, please contact me.  It is not my wish to take credit for this story. 

Cynthia Howerter © 2011, 2013 

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Why The Underdog Will Win

Posted by on Aug 27, 2013 in Encouragement | 14 comments

I love the movie “Rocky.”  Yes, I’m talking about the first Rocky movie that came out in 1976.  I love this movie for several reasons:  I once lived in Philadelphia (where the movie is set), and I love to watch an underdog win.

Rocky’s life was nothing special until he was given the unlikely opportunity to fight Apollo Creed, the World Heavyweight Champion.  After focusing all of his time, money, and talent on training to fight Apollo Creed, Rocky comes to realize the night before the nationally promoted fight that he can’t beat Creed.  There’s just no way a poor wanna-be fighter can realistically beat a world-class winner.

So why bring up such an old movie now?  It’s because I can relate to Rocky on a personal level.  Yesterday was a tough day for me.  The Evil One used others to tell me all the reasons why the book my co-author, La-Tan Roland Murphy, and I wrote will never be successful—and that it will never recoup a penny of the thousands of dollars we’ve spent to pay contributing writers, an editor, a professional marketing guru, and promotion costs on a book that God clearly told us to write.  Man, just kick me and tell me to be hopeless.

Then I thought of Rocky.  Realizing he could not win, he was faced with two options:  either don’t show up for the fight—or show up and believe that he’s capable of giving his very best effort.

Hmm.  Give his very best effort.  Now why do those words ring a bell?  Because in the movie “Facing the Giants,” high school football coach Grant Taylor realizes that he can’t win at anything in his life, and he is faced with, yes, two options:  either give up—or turn to God, focus on Him, and give his very best effort to a God who believes in him.

That reminded me of when my husband was going through the long battle of unemployment.  Innumerable people told us that Tim would never get another job.  Why?  Because he was too old and had been unemployed for too long.  These two facts made him unemployable—from their perspective.  Which happened to be the perspective of most people.  Except Tim and me.

In a terrible, unenviable situation, Tim and I had, yes, two choices:  either give up hoping for a new job—or believe in God’s promises that He will give us what we need and when we need it—for starters.

Like Rocky and Coach Taylor, Tim and I refused option one; there was no giving up and throwing in the towel.  Instead, we put our focus on the winning team—God.  And in doing so, we ignored the naysayers and believed that God can do all that He says He can do.  And God did:  Tim was given a good job.

Now, back to me and the naysayers and the book.  Just like Rocky, Coach Taylor, and Tim, La-Tan and I have, yes, two choices:  either we believe that our book cannot be successful because most books are not—or we put our trust and focus on God—who told us to write the book in the first place—and allow Him to do what He wants with it.

And so, La-Tan and I are going to ignore what is reality from a human perspective—that we cannot recoup our financial expenditures because the book can’t possibly be successful enough to do this.  Instead, we are going to focus on God who says He can and He will if we choose to obey Him and leave all the consequences up to Him.


Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us.  Ephesians 3:20 (NIV)


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Time Well Spent

Posted by on Aug 6, 2013 in Encouragement | 6 comments

IMG_0007Recently, my daughter Megan and I traveled together to Pennsylvania.  Light-hearted and serious conversations peppered our three-day trip.  We laughed, we reminisced, we sang along to our favorite songs.  We caught up on each other’s life.

When the trip finally came to a reluctant end, Megan made me promise that we will take a trip together—just the two of us—every year.  Of course, it’s a promise I wanted to make, and one that I intend to keep.

I know my daughter very well and we immensely enjoy each other’s company.  Why?  Because we’ve spent a lot time together.  Time talking.  Time listening.  Time focusing on each other.  That’s how good relationships are built.

It’s the same with our relationship with God.  When we spend time reading the Bible, we come to really know God.  We learn what pleases Him and what He desires for us.  When we spend time praying, God listens as we tell Him about ourselves, our heart’s desires, and our situations.

Do you know what your most priceless possession is?  It’s your time.  Spend it well.  After all, once your time is spent, you can never get it back.

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.  Proverbs 22: 6 (KJV)

P. S.  Don’t forget to enter the Book Giveaway Contest for God’s Provision in Tough Times!  5 people will each win a copy of the book!  The contest will end Friday, August 9, and the 5 winners will be announced.  All you have to do is:  1)  Be a SWE’s subscriber, and 2)  Leave a comment.  Be sure to state whether you’d prefer a paperback or Kindle version of God’s Provision in Tough Times.



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What Incredible Plans Are In Store For You?

Posted by on Aug 5, 2013 in Cynthia's Book - God's Provision in Tough Times, Encouragement, Unemployment | 6 comments

I never dreamed that the loss of my husband’s job and the ensuing problems we encountered would lead to so much good.  When Tim announced that he was no longer employed—two weeks before Christmas in 2008—our world immediately unraveled.  Christmas was the first victim; we purchased no tree or fresh wreath for the door, the gifts we’d planned to buy remained in the stores, and the celebratory Christmas Day dinner was conspicuous for the foods that didn’t appear on our table.

We set the thermostat lower than usual in the midst of a cold, snowy Pennsylvania winter.  A crackling fire in our large center-of-the-house fireplace struggled to heat our family room while blankets that were usually kept folded across the foot of our beds enfolded us and warmed what the flames could not.

We limited our electric usage.  The oven was only used twice a week, cooking several days worth of meals at a time.  A surplus of candles and my grandmother’s old oil lamp illuminated our rooms.  Cozy, yes—but a nightly reminder of our fragile financial situation.

Tim and I prayed hard.  Staggering fears consumed us each day while sleep-robbing anxiety kept us awake at night.  Our cash dwindled to the point where only a four-day supply of money stood between us and desperation.  God’s plan for us appeared to hold only heartbreak and disaster.

Or did it?

Unending hardships drove us to God and taught us that He shines brightest in the deep valleys of our life.  Trapped in a tunnel of darkness, it is invariably light that leads a person to safety.

Looking back on those terrible days, I now clearly see how God’s plan for our future unfolded as He used our trials to prepare my husband, son, daughter, and me for a life that serves Him.

After Tim was given a new job and we purchased another house, people began to ask me what we did to successfully get through nearly two years of unemployment.  A publisher heard my story and asked me to write a book detailing my family’s experiences as a way to provide hope and encouragement to others.  God’s Provision in Tough Times is the result.  It was always part of God’s plan.

I thought this book would only appeal to people experiencing unemployment or financial despair, but to my surprise, God’s Provision is helping people in all kinds of situations strengthen their faith!  The Kindle version of “God’s Provision in Tough Times” has been in the top 100 best-selling e-books in the relationship category on

During our darkest days when our future appeared hopeless, I could never have imagined that God’s plan was to use our suffering to draw others close to Him.

No matter what you’re going through, no matter how hopeless your situation appears, or how depressed you feel, know this:  God has a very good plan for you if you will seek Him and make Him the center of your life.

It’s time for a Book Giveaway Contest! 

I want to show my appreciation for your support of my writing:  5 people will each win a free copy of God’s Provision in Tough Times!51SwEN2p0IL__SY380_

I’m giving away 3 Kindle copies and 2 autographed paperback copies of God’s Provision in Tough Times in this book giveaway contest which will end on Friday, August 9, 2013.  The winners will be announced on Friday afternoon on Soar With Eagles.

To enter a chance to win a copy of God’s Provision in Tough Times, you must :  1) Be a subscriber of Soar With Eagles, and 2) Leave a comment.  Make sure you state which book version you’d like to receive if you are one of the 5 contest winners.

Do you have a friend who would like a copy of God’s Provision in Tough Times?  Ask them to subscribe to Soar With Eagles now and enter the book giveaway by leaving a comment.

My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.  2 Corinthians 12:9a (NIV)



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